Paganism: The Importance of Being Authentic

The Basic  ideas and ideals  of being authentic could mean:

♦ Figuring out who you are
♦ Accepting yourself
♦ Being true to yourself

In itself, this may all sound very easy.

However, some people are going to struggle/

At times the strains and stresses of a busy daily life may distract us.

This may also mean that we will never pause to take a good look at ourselves to see who we really are.

Pausing to take a good look at yourself can be intimidating.

What if you aren’t the great person you think you are?

Sometimes self-care is hard because it means facing things you’d rather pretend aren’t there.

Self-examination is uncomfortable.

It requires a level of honesty that you may not feel prepared to handle.

You may fear admitting that you have been the one sabotaging yourself, knowingly or unknowingly, or you may be terrified of acknowledging that you need to crack down on your self-discipline in order to be your best self.

Self-care means recognizing that you’re weak in some areas.

It means you have more agency and control over your life than you may be comfortable accepting.

But just think: if you admit you have weak areas, you know what to work on, and you know what parts of you need more love and nurturing.

If you accept responsibility for being your best self, then you can make better decisions regarding your self-care.

Try this affirmation: “I honor my true self.”

Living as your authentic self means following a very individual path.

No one else can live quite like you.

It’s a unique pursuit.

Yes, it is hard to isolate your own values and sometimes harder to live according to them when it might be a lot easier to remain ignorant and pretend that you’re fine.

But caring for an inauthentic self is like filling a leaky bucket.

You can’t ever fill it, because it’s not complete.

Self-care means valuing all the various parts of you, not just some of them (yes, even the parts that still need work).

If you pretend to be someone you’re not, how can you ever be truly happy?

If you’re not being authentic, how can you have compassion for yourself?

Living authentically might not be easy, but it’s rewarding.

Here are some things to keep in mind:

♦ Balance what you feel and/or need against your actions.

♦ Making value-based choices will be healthier in the long run than making choices based on convenience or popular opinion.

♦ Advocate for yourself and your needs or wants.

♦ Don’t let yourself be driven by a need to be approved of or liked by others.

Approval is a powerful drug, but being happy with your value-based choices is healthier for your spirit and sense of self.

Being openly authentic can be intimidating.

What if you embrace yourself as you truly are, weaknesses and flaws and all…only to be rejected by other people?

Fear is a powerful deterrent.

Fear of failure, of rejection, or of loneliness can combine with the fear of missing out, creating a tangle of anxiety and a sense of not being in control of anything.

Remember, though, living authentically will build your sense of confidence and strength, which will in turn show in your personal energy.

As much as self-examination can be scary, ignoring it just creates a different kind of stress—avoidable stress, at that.

Make the choice to work through the stress and engage in self-reflection instead of being at the
mercy of the stress that rises from procrastinating or ignoring something.

Be in control.

Paganism in History

The customs and spiritual practices of the early, pre-Christian Pagan cultures were passed down from one generation to the next.

These old ways were traditions for respecting and interacting with the gods and other spirit denizens, and they varied from one culture to another.

The Anglo-Saxons, for example, gave due offerings before a wéoh, which was an image or symbol of the honored deity.

The early Roman honored his family’s numina (guardian spirits) at a household lararium, an object often resembling a small cupboard, which served as a home for those spirits.

The early Greeks began every ritual with an offering to the goddess Hestia.

Each culture had its own customs.

Many Paleo-Pagans— whether Greek or Roman or Saxon—were undoubtedly passionate and sincere in their piety, but their spiritual paths were largely a matter of circumstance rather than choice.

The Celt and the Egyptian, the Saxon, and the Greek, they observed their respective customs because those were the only customs they were familiar and comfortable with.

By contrast, contemporary Pagans—almost without exception—intentionally choose the paths we follow.

This is necessarily true for the “first-generation Pagan” who was not raised as a Pagan, but in today’s multicultural environment even children born into polytheist households are usually encouraged to explore and appreciate other spiritual paths and to choose their own paths with knowledge and intention.

Today’s Pagan—whether or not raised in a Pagan home—makes a conscious decision about his or her personal spiritual journey.

This intentional choice may be one of the most significant distinctions between contemporary Pagans and our Paleo-Pagan ancestors.

We have expectations of our spiritual paths.

For the majority of today’s Pagans, this includes the expectation of a connection between us and the earth, so much so that Pagan spirituality has often been labeled “earth religion”, or “earth-based religion”.

Our ancestors had no need to reconnect with the earth; they were immersed in its whims and tides.

In the pre-industrial world, the rural population was much greater than it is today.

Urban centers like Rome and Athens were few and far between, and even in those ancient cities the residents were far more directly affected by the earth’s mood swings.

Today, in developed nations at least, we need not fear starvation if the local grain crop fails.

For the majority of us, severe winter weather only means a higher-than-usual utility bill.

We are still dependent on the earth, but not as directly as our ancestors were, and for the most part, this is a good thing.

Nevertheless, we have lost something in the process, and it is this disconnection from the natural world that has inspired many people to explore “earth-based” Pagan spirituality.

Because of this intentional spirituality, Pagans today often attempt to follow what the early Saxons might have called Hal Sidu, meaning healthy or holistic traditions.

Hal Sidu engages and integrates all parts of the Self.

Exactly how many parts there are depend on one’s spiritual paradigm.

As a Saxon Pagan, I expect Hal Sidu to engage my rational thought, stimulate my memories and emotion, arouse my source of inspiration, balance my physical body and fortify my identity.

In the Saxon tradition, these are all equally important parts of the “Self ”.

Pagans who follow other paths will have other definitions of the Self, of course.

For the sake of simplicity let us make use of a popular contemporary paradigm and define Hal Sidu as the integration of Body, Mind and Spirit.

I use the Old English term Hal Sidu for intentional Pagan spirituality because I follow a Saxon path, but a Roman Pagan might call it the Vetera Valens (“worthy traditions”).

An Ice-landic Pagan could call it Heildræn Venjur (“holistic habits”).

The name is not important.

By any name, intentional Pagan spirituality helps us reconnect with the earth and integrate all parts of the Self into one whole being.

Hal Sidu—or whatever term you prefer—is not a matter of belief.

In fact “belief ” is relatively unimportant in polytheist religions.

Yes, the Paleo-Pagans believed in their gods, but it was in the way modern people believe in gravity or electricity, not in the way a child believes in the Tooth Fairy.

When we apply the logic that we apply to every other aspect of the human experience to our perceptions the divine, it is patently obvious that the gods are real.

We can conclude that the goddess Athena is real, for example, because she has spoken to and interacted with thousands of people over thousands of years —and she is no “less real” just because Bob decides, for whatever reason, to not believe in her existence.

Early Pagans knew the gods are real; for them, it was not an issue of personal belief.

What matters to the polytheist are not people’s beliefs, but people’s actions; their words, and deeds.

Traditional Pagan spirituality is orthopraxic, focusing on shared practices and traditions rather than beliefs.

This remains true even today in Pagan paths such as British Traditional Witchcraft, in most forms of polytheistic Reconstructionism and for the international Neo-Pagan fellowship Ár nDraíocht Féin.

It is your actions that define you and shape the world around you.

And as with all other things, it is by your actions that you integrate Body, Mind and Spirit.

Not by thinking about it.

Not by talking about it.

It is something you do.

When we take no action towards developing an intentional Pagan spirituality, it is often because we do not know where to begin rather than from a lack of desire.

Few books address this issue; how to live as a Pagan after closing the ritual and washing up the chalice or mead horn.

Many Pagans, especially those new to polytheism, are unsure how to reach out and touch the earth both physically and spiritually.

Hal Sidu—holistic custom—demands that we do this very thing; that we touch the earth, taking action to build a personal Pagan lifestyle for each of us.

How you accomplish this will be a reflection of your own interests, needs, and circumstances.

The important thing is not what you do, which will vary from one person to another, but that you do something, some little thing each day to connect with your gods and with the world around you There are many ways to do this.

You might find a connection through rituals that sacralize your daily activities, or by mindfully working with a familiar.

You might find it by literally touching the earth, armed with a spade and a hoe, raising some of your own food, and actively participating in the eternal cycle of receiving and giving back.

Or maybe you will find more inspiration in crafting your own ritual candles and incense.

Whatever the means, building an intentional, personal Pagan lifestyle will help you integrate Body, Mind, and Spirit into something whole and complete.

What is Paganism?

Sometimes that is difficult to define. Modern Paganism probably embraces the most diverse sets of spiritual belief systems and practices in existence today. Paganism is not a traditional “religion” because it does not have any official doctrine. It does, however, have some common characteristics spanning a great variety of traditions. One of the common beliefs is the Divine Presence in nature and the reverence of the natural order in life. Spiritual growth results from observing the cycles of the Earth, the cycles of each season.

Paganism has probably been around in one form or another since the Stone Age. But the word itself derives from the old Latin term paganus, which means “country dweller.” Peasants and commoners were usually the last to convert to Christianity, so when Christianity became the dominant religion of Western Europe, people who still practiced the old religions were commonly referred to as Pagans. And that is where Paganism finds its deepest roots, as those who lived in non-urban areas were more in touch with Mother Earth. Most Pagans feel a deep connection with all things in Nature, and most eschew going into a specific building for worship. They find a closer connection to the Divine in natural settings such as oak groves or by rivers.

Unfortunately, some more restrictive modern religions consider Pagans to be non-believers, or they erroneously think that Pagans worship trees instead of God. The perception is that if you are not following that same “one true path” as defined by that other religion, then you are surely doomed for eternity because you are obviously being led astray by Satan. Well, being Pagan doesn’t necessarily mean that you don’t believe in a divine being , whatever you chose to call Him, Her or It, but rather that you revere the divine energy that is held within every rock, every river, every tree in the forest, every animal, and every other Human, because all these things were made by the Creator.

Modern Paganism rarely conforms to one model, and thus results the great diversity. Many Pagans believe in Reincarnation, but some don’t. Druids are Pagans. Practitioners of Wicca usually consider themselves to be Pagan. You also get followers of belief systems based in Native American spirituality that can be categorized as Pagans as well. Some ecologists call themselves Pagan. Some Pagan practices have their roots in ancient Celtic, Norse, or Egyptian beliefs, and those rituals are being revived today. Some Pagans celebrate certain festivals such as the Solstices and the Equinoxes, and still other Pagans don’t follow any particular practices or rituals at all. Some Pagans believe in a Supreme Being while others are polytheistic, honoring various different gods or goddesses for different aspects of the natural world.

Modern Pagans are people who have made a conscious choice to follow a path of individual spiritual growth that is in harmony with the Earth that gives us life, a path which also encourages social and environmental responsibility. Each individual has the right to worship in their own way. Pagans believe in the sacredness of all things, revering and respecting all life. There really is not one “right way” to be a Pagan; all the ways are the right way.

Witchcraft Explained

Witchcraft is a number of belief systems whose roots pre date Christianity and which comes under the umbrella heading of Pagan. Witchcraft also has roots which go back to Paleolithic times as illustrated by the cave paintings of our ancient ancestors. The craft of witchcraft can possibly be termed as a living religion and has as much relevance to us today as it did to its practitioners in the past. We still seek healing in our bodies and minds , strength to deal with our daily lives, understanding and compassion to help us relate to those around us and develop our own selves.

Unlike the more orthodox religions or faiths ,  where it is true Wicca has a priesthood the craft of witch craft  does not. We are each our own Priests and Priestesses and there for make our own decisions as to the expression of our beliefs . As a result there is no one true way to being a witch. This gives rise to a great diversity in our daily practices and indeed enables the craft to grow and adapt to the real world in a way that other paths may find difficult because of their interpreted doctrine. There are however many beliefs and practices and beliefs most witches hold in common.

The Meaning of the Word Paganism

The word Pagan comes from the Latin word “Paganus” which in itself means country dweller.

This word may of once been used as a derogatory term created by city dwellers to describe what can be terms as , “Those Hicks Out There”, much like the word redneck.

Because the word “Pagan” tended to have a negative meaning it was later adopted as an insult in a bid for control.

During the crusades the Christians called the Muslims “Pagans”, and later, Protestants and Catholics flung the word at each other.

Eventually Pagan meant someone without religion. In recent years the word Pagan may have lost some of its perceived stigma by becoming a movement, At the very least, the word “Pagan” helps us to think about the label history applies to those who differ from conventional western thoughts ,faiths and religions.